April is here, and that means Spring has arrived! I hope this message finds you and your family happy and well. Every April, we come together to recognize Child Abuse Awareness Month. Put your pinwheels out and wear your blue! Child Abuse is not an easy topic to think about or discuss, but it is a vital conversation to have in the community as it is such a prevalent issue. As a child and adolescent counselor, I would like to take this opportunity to share some of the signs and symptoms to watch out for in children and teens that may occur if they have experienced abuse.
Children who have experienced abuse will often become very fearful and anxious. Nightmares and bedwetting are often seen. They may also become angry and irritable. Parents will often describe defiant behavior as well. Some children may become withdrawn, tearful, and sad. There are a lot of behavioral changes that can occur, so parents/caregivers should take note of any significant changes in their child’s demeanor or behavior.
School-aged children who have experienced abuse may have trouble concentrating or paying attention at school. They might get into fights with friends or struggle to remain still in class. These symptoms can sometimes be confused with those of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), but they are really signs of dysregulation, and the child is simply trying to find emotional safety. Emotional and behavioral changes can also occur at this age.
Teens who have experienced abuse will often lose interest in the activities that they once enjoyed. They may engage in risky behavior such as smoking, drinking, or unsafe sex. Abuse takes a big toll on a person’s self-esteem, and those who have been abused will often feel worthless, guilty, and ashamed. The most significant rule to remember is that child abuse is silent, and the way to prevent it is to talk about it. Teach your children about who their trusted adults are inside and outside their home who can help them if they ever experience maltreatment.
Child Abuse comes in many forms: physical, sexual, emotional abuse, and even neglect. It is serious and can cause significant issues if left unchecked. If you ever suspect that a child you know is experiencing abuse, you can help. Please use the hotline numbers listed below to report your concerns. You do not have to have evidence; it is simply a concern. The hotline staff will talk you through what will happen next.
Missouri Child Abuse Hotline: 1800-392-3738
Kansas Child Abuse Hotline: 1800-922-5330
Finally, I want to give a shout-out to our area Children’s Advocacy Centers who work throughout the year to prevent and mitigate the effects of child abuse. They are true everyday heroes! They can provide continued resources for children and families in need.
- Voices of Courage – St Joseph, MO
- Synergy Services – Parkville, MO
- Child Protection Center – (Jackson and Cass Counties)
- Sunflower House Shawnee, KS
- Leavenworth CAC (and Atchison satellite office)
